The debut episode of The Difference a Dad Makes podcast brings together co-hosts Dr. Jennifer L. Baker and J. Fotsch as they introduce Brian Mattson, the lead pastor at the Downtown Church in Springfield, MO. Brian is also a musician and proud father of two young children. This heartfelt conversation dives deep into the vital role dads, mentors, and male role models play in shaping not only their own children but also the lives of those who lack a father figure.
This week on The Dad Factor blog, we’re summarizing our favorite takeaways from the recent episode of The Difference a Dad Makes!
Why Dads Matter
Dr. Baker highlights the evolution of research on fatherhood, noting that early studies primarily emphasized the impact of father absence. Today, however, the focus has shifted to understanding the unique benefits that dads bring to the parenting equation. These contributions extend beyond traditional roles and dive into a variety of topics, including how fathers influence their children’s emotional, social, and developmental growth in ways mothers or other caregivers might not.
As Brian shares his personal experiences, he reflects on the sleepless nights and challenges of parenting young children. His story of supporting his wife during the early months of their children’s lives underscores a critical point: Dads provide stability and support that benefit not only their kids, but their partners as well.
Dr. Baker echoes this idea, stating, “When moms do better, babies do better.”
Mentors and Role Models
For those who may not have a father at home, mentors and male role models step in to fill an essential gap. Brian recalls a mentor from his youth who treated him with respect and gave him the confidence to lead. This relationship left an indelible mark, illustrating how mentors can foster accountability, self-reliance and problem-solving skills.
Our co-hosts discuss how young men—especially those without strong male role models—can benefit from programs like New Pathways for Good Dads. Part of what makes this program so successful, we think, is that it introduces positive role models who genuinely care, offering guidance that many participants have never experienced before.
Fathers Bring Something Special to the Table in Every Life Stage
Our conversation with Brian also touches adolescence, a time when having a present father can provide stability and accountability.
Whether it’s helping teens navigate challenges or letting them experience the consequences of their decisions, Brian says that dads play a pivotal role in fostering resilience and independence.
“Dads provide a unique stability, especially in the teenage years,” Brian explains. “Having a father around gives kids someone to report to, which creates accountability.”
Actionable Insights
Good Dads Podcast Listeners are encouraged to reflect on the “difference a dad makes” in their own lives or the lives of others. Whether you’re a father, mentor, or someone considering stepping into such a role, this episode offers valuable lessons and inspiration.
Dr. Baker’s closing remarks serve as a powerful reminder: “We may not always tell men how important they are, but dads contribute so much to their children’s well-being. It’s time we let them know just how valuable they are.”
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